Sometimes you look at the past, it hurts you. But if you will look at the past, that will hold you behind. It’s hard to accept some things but the best way is to keep moving forward. Focus on creating your future, by what you do in the present. You may regret something from your past, not liking what someone did in the past or any other issues, but the best healing method is to accept the reality and create a better future for yourself. It’s hard I know. We can’t go back in time and change things, but the best thing we can do is to learn from the past and focus on the future. Don’t let the past, steal your present. Letting go of the past, is coming to the realisation that some things are only part of your history but not part of your destiny.

“Life is like a book; some chapters are sad, some are happy and some are exiting. But if you never turn the page, you will never know what the next chapter holds.”

Sometimes our future doesn’t always go as planned; life changes, people change, we make mistakes and other impacts that make our life path change. John Campbell stated, “we must be willing to let go of the life we have planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” Everything happens for a reason, but we can help our destiny by focusing on ourselves first. The best formula for happiness is progress within ourselves.

Sometimes you hold onto things that make you sad but follow your intuition, it will always lead you to the right direction. Create a life that feels good on the inside, sometimes you aren’t in control of what happens around you but you will always be in control of something that happens within you.

Let your faith, be bigger than your fears. If it’s meant to be it will be, but the important thing is to believe in yourself. Even with people; don’t waste your energy chasing people, if they are real they will stay. You shouldn’t have to fight for love. Real love fights with you, not against you. Real love is when you and the other person meets half way and learns to understand each other; by building growth and healing of one another. Don’t settle for anything less.

Even if sometimes things may not be the way you want them to be, remember the universe has a plan for you. Even when we plan things, we never know what the universe has in store for us but with no expectations, you will be happier. 🖤